Being a parent is the most challenging obligation I have ever undertaken.

I am responsible for everything these little humans that I have given birth to will know.

But, alas, no one ever taught me all of the things that I will need to know in order to do a good job as a Mom! Therefore, I must teach myself.

Human physiology, medicine, history, arts and crafts, business and finance, physical education, science, mathematics, botany, zoology, chemistry, physics, computers and technology, marketing, playful learning, swimming, dancing, jewelry-making, geography, nutrition, cooking, meteorology, sibling rivalry, and more and more. The list can literally go on forever because every day I realize how many more tools I need in my parenting toolbox.

Anyways, I want to talk today about a part of my reality that I call parental self-education. This is a vital part of my daily life and I wonder how many other parents out there do something similar. It is made up of a combination of daily audio lectures and book reading in parallel.

So, here goes:

Breakfast preparation: Listening in to a free “History of the World” course online (so I can answer the kids questions about history and how we got here)

Lunch preparation: Listening to The Big Picture MBA: What every business school graduate knows audio CD (for my new business venture).

Dinner preparation: Listening to a lecture series on internet marketing in Hebrew  (for my new business venture)

In between: listening to The Panic Virus audio book (about vaccines – must decide whether or not to vaccinate partially)

In the car: listening with the kids to Elizabeth the Queen – Queen Elizabeth’s biography (17 cd’s in total – we are on cd #3!)

On my bed I: Reading The Longevity Diet book (a life changing book which i will talk about more i another post about parental weight loss and nutrition)

On my bed II: Reading the book How to Write Poetry since I have no idea how to even approach this subject.

First Floor Restroom: Tribes by Seth Godin (to increase my knowledge about business for my new venture).

Second Floor Restroom: Children’s Book of Music (how to teach kids about various types of music and musicians)

And, yes, I get to each and every one of these media elements every single day.

Two minutes here, two minutes there. It’s mostly fragmented but I am learning all the time. The kids often make too much noise and I must press “Pause” very often (every 3 minutes or so). But I am not giving up.

“Mom, can you do a puppet show?”. Bring out the puppetry books and let’s get this party started.

At the end of each day, I am more knowledgeable about child education, business and finance, medicine and physiology, nutrition, internet and web marketing, history of the world on many levels and literature. It’s a university at home. I really feel good about this.

“Mom, let’s do a craft”. Yikes. Mom never learned arts and crafts.

To compensate for my lack of knowledge in the classics, I read classical stories along with the kids. We read Little House on the Prairie daily, Jules Verne’s The Mysterious Island, Harry Potter. Mom has a lot to learn.

Honestly, there is SO MUCH TO KNOW. I don’t think I will cover one thousandth of it in my lifetime. But I am sure as heck going to try.

Why?

1. Because it is fascinating! Really! I enjoy learning new things tremendously. These audiobooks and books are so rich with colors, flavors, stories, tensions, discoveries – TOOLS. I find myself a better person just by having broader knowledge.

2. Because I feel that my childhood was wasted and that’s too bad. instead of reading books and learning about the world around us, I watched idiotic TV shows and wasted time with mediocre middle school and high school intricacies. what a waste. i wish someone would have told me what i am missing. Why didn’t anyone tell me books were so powerful????

3. Because as a parent, I am an educator and that is a huge responsibility. I owe it to my kids to fill up my knowledge bank so that their knowledge bank will grow as well.

Some days I feel that this disproportionate hunger for knowledge can’t possibly be normal. I am starved. I mean, there is rarely a minute that i am not learning something new or teaching something new to my kids.  Inside the house or outside. I don’t think this hunger can ever be fully satiated.

“Mom, can you teach me gardening?”. “Don’t know anything about gardening – but let’s see what the librarian has for us”.

Surprisingly, Academy Dad is hungry like a wolf as well. I see him with his ear phones plugged into his iPad educating himself with free history, mathematics, real estate and business lectures online.

For the good or the bad, learning is a bug. And we’ve caught it big time.

Learning every day. “Mom, do you want me to teach you chess?”

Is there any other parent out there who is self educating in ridiculous doses daily?

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